The more we use the internet, and it becomes a daily tool in our life, the more encounters of this kind will come. Somebody dislikes your photos or your art.
What is bullying?
Is the act of intentionally causing unhappiness to others through verbal harassment, physical assault, or other more subtle methods of coercion such as manipulation. There is currently no legal definition of bullying.
-Wikipedia
What is cyberbullying?
Cyberbullying" is when a child, preteen or teen is tormented, threatened, harassed, humiliated, embarrassed or otherwise targeted by another child, preteen or teen using the Internet, interactive and digital technologies or mobile phones.
It has to have a minor on both sides, or at least have been instigated by a minor against another minor. Once adults become involved, it is plain and simple cyber-harassment or cyberstalking. Adult cyber-harassment or cyberstalking is NEVER called cyberbullying.
From the school yard to internet
This kind of harassment has now moved from the school yard to internet. And comes in various of forms. Even that some think they post their statement by saying : I do not like you or your art.
Can grow from these innocent words to something really serious. Deviantart crew remind you all to report such to their help desk and people can become banned or warned. But some of them get away because they are clever to write with no big words such as gender words or curses.
Bullying in my point of view is: Calling people stupid, less good, looking ugly , being fat, attacking them for spelling over and over again even saying their art is bad. Some even wrote and I quote:
" Dyslexia is not an excuse to spell bad.."
Some has such a bad dyslexia that even if they try spelling it turns out bad, and some spelling softwares can´t correct the word because it was spelled is such a strange way.
Some might not even know English, and then some attack them for spelling bad. Please have some heart and let those people learn in their own speed. Pushing these wont help.
Attacking verbal is as bad as getting a hit in the face, because wounds of sword heals by wounds of words stay.
If they state a phrase such as this : I think you are not a nice person and that your art is bad. I have seen people get away with this phrase because it is not harmful. It can´t hurt the person and is not offensive. But for some people it can be hurtful.
I think Deviantart does a good job cleaning out the bad guys , but some of the bad guys has been a member for many years and gained a love from many. When they attack and insult a fellow artists many of them get away.
When you add a forum thread you will be attacked by people who has nothing better to do then to attack other people and insult. The forum on Deviantart is the biggest cause of bullying because many does not get reported or even warned.
How do you avoid getting banned or attacked online?
* Do not go to attack yourself, people who bully loves that and will attack worse back.
* If you are sensitive and can´t handle people who are mean, avoid Deviantart forum, thats where all the bad guys/gals are.
* Do not write under a image or photo : It is so ugly, I am ugly. You maybe think so but thats trowing wood on fire.
Keep trying to report them, try to state why you are offended. 1 out of 10 gets the same answer often: We see nothing harmful in what he/she wrote.
Use blocking on your page to keep them away.
STOP CYBERBULLYING , Words hurt as bad as hits.
Visit
www.stopcyberbullying.org To see what you can do to help or prevent online bullying.
Devious Comments
What if the adult is on the receiving end? I wonder because I know of many adults that still have timid personalities and can't stick up for themselves. I? I just ban them, report them if necessary, but a few friends that would just let themselves be pushed around having their emotions toyed or hurt.
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Bullies ofter dont realise what the consequenses of their actions are, and that stinks.
Even if you tell someone you know, who's getting bullied, to stand up for themselves, some people just can't. Try to help them as much as you can.
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Some of the DA forums, especially the complaints forum can get pretty nasty, but that can apply to any forum you go. Online behavior lacks the inhibitions assciated with live interaction.
As for reporting, only the most severe cases will administrative action will be taken. Heated arguments and bluntly-expressed opposing viewpoints is not necessarily harrassment. There are way too many people for the staff to handle on dA in a timely manner; they don't want users to abuse the report feature over every little conflict. Thankfully dA provides measures to like hiding messages and blocking deviants. Othwerwise, regulation on the internet is very loose so caution is the best defense.
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But bullying is something in this world that we'll have to deal with unfortunately.
The expression you said are true, nonetheless. Words do hurt more than hits. And along that wounds of the swords heal, but wounds of words stay.
And caution can be the best defense in any situation. I agree with every SINGLE thing that you said. Thank you.
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online thinking it would effect me. I think that was the one that stopped them because everyone commented about the fact that I'd brought my girlfriend to the last convention and was wearing a gay pride T-shirt even. When people sink that low as to bring up personal issues online it is rather sad.
I run two forums and tell kids the best thing is to keep to safer areas. Stick to the people you know and trust and do not post in open areas if you are not ready for harassment. I make my forums to allow gay youth a place to feel safe and I don't allow anyone to harass them. Not one bit.
Well, that is enough out of me.
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Whatever we like it or not, we will have have to deal with cyberbullying whatever it's on dA or else where. And there will be more words that will be hurtful and disrespectful and the pageviews itself.
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