Some people do not ever manage to learn how to cope and will fail many times before even getting anywhere but is this simply because they want so much so fast?, but in their heart all they want to is to be loved!
once love has been found it can be a very strange feeling for some especially first timers, they don't know what they are doing and usually burn out pretty quickly due to this and too ill experienced, but find someone who has never found love either would probably be a good bet as emotions can be shared for the first time both way. You never forget your first love though the first one that brought so much happiness in to your life, a wonderful feeling that you have never experienced before, or even your first kiss, i mean your first real kiss, the one filled with passion and power that will never forget its funny though how it seems that every new kiss is like the original first one, with each new person a new texture a new taste, a different feeling each time, but mostly love.
For these who are not in love and are desperate for it, for these who are depressed and just need that someone to help them along that difficult part of their lives most people will settle for any thing, but this shouldn't be the way, they shouldn't go out and din the nearest girl to them, they need to slow down and find the right person, i know it might be hard to do at the time but 9/10 chances they will come off better if they wait, and they will be happier if they wait.
but it can be hard for the person to find the right person, how will they know, i mean once someone has fallen for another, often or even always the feeling that the person feels cannot be combated even if they try, the virus if you like consumes the body, and the person is powerless to overcome it, because of this someone will devote their lives to them and put them first before anyone else including sometimes themselves and usually this us not understood that the individual is doing it until it is too late or what they once had is now gone, i have had this happen to me before from both sides of the relationship but of course almost all of the time it is way to late to do anything about this, for the ones that do get back together then it can sometimes be awkward as the time that was spend away from the person has changed their prospects of the other person, they may see how they really and would be prefers to stay single, for others the relationship can can continue, this could be a sign of real love and real passion, but for those who do not get back together after they split up because they actually want to be single because they miss that way of life and being able to mingle if you will with the opposite sex, it can be like falling in love all over again to some degree, the feelings have been longed for now return again.
soon the person will start to become jealous ad long once again for a speical someone that was once in their busy lives, or more so empty lives, because most us with out someone can feel empty or theres is something missing from our loves but doesn't this sound familiar form earlier?, the need for someone again to for fill that now familiar feeling, it seems that it is a never ending journey of happiness as well as heartbreak, well until true love has been found, the journey before hand though is a different length for everyone, we can all agree though we could do with out all of the hassle, all of the pain in the journey, but maybe we need this to come out stronger in the long run, maybe we need all of this for more confidence with relationships, so we don't screw it up as soon as we get it, mostly its because we need the experience wit it, with out trail and error where would we be in modern society?, its the same with relationships we must make mistakes to learn from them but losing is someone due to a silly mistake can be a tough thing to terms wit, it can deliver a whole range of emotions including regret and longing, if a person was to get close to someone and then find out that will not like them they will sometimes to everything in their power to get them back because with out them they realised that they are noting ( or they feel like this), sometimes it does work and they do get back together but most of the time it does not, the worst possible case would be if the girl or boy was to find someone else in the time of being away from their previous partner, this again can deliver a whole range of emotions to the now single partner but mostly hate and jealously, the thoughts of "why him and not me" and other such things come to min, but doing this will not get the person anywhere fast and it is usually sometimes best to either wait it out or move on.

next part soon =]

gav